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How to know whether someone is suffering from depression?

 

Depressions occur in all age categories. That is why it is important to distinguish between the several age groups regarding the symptoms or behaviour which indicate depression. Should you see that a certain person manifests four or more elements of the behaviour described below for over two weeks, a red light should start flashing. Chances are that he or she is at the verge of a depression, in which case it is important to enlist professional help as soon as possible. The sooner you react, the greater the chance of a speedy recovery. Most symptoms described below point out the “regular” depression, which does not rule out that the person might be suffering from a variant of depression, such as the bipolar disorder or a winter depression. The symptoms are described below according to the age categories.


Signals with a child wich may indicate depression.
Doctors used to think that depression only occurred with adults. Several years ago, however, it was clinically determined that children and even toddlers as well can suffer from depression. The following behaviour may be an indication for that:


• No reaction when they are spoken to or being touched
• Few or no tears or smiles
• Crying fits which are very hard to soothe
• Trouble gaining weight
• No motivation to play
• Restlessness
• Hypersensitivity to sound and light
• Problems eating and sleeping
• Stomach problems such as diarrhea and constipation


Signals with a teenager which may indicate depression
Wich children and teenagers, depression often manifests differently than with adults. Examples are no longer wanting to go to school, social isolation, fear of separation, running away from home, obsessions, neurotic behaviour such as carrying out certain daily rituals and fear that something bad will happen. These elements may indicate depression as well:


• Not being happy
• Negativism
• Complaining all the time
• Regarding everything as tedious
• Not taking initiative
• Impulsive and destructive behaviour
• Being disobedient all the time
• Constant annoyance about everything and everyone
• Crying a lot
• Low self-esteem
• Being oversensitive
• Concentration problems
• Getting distracted easily
• Eating disorders
• Sleeping problems
• Bed-wetting
• Constipation or diarrhea
• Panic attacks
• Worrying all the time
• Slow body movements and conversations
• Talking incoherently
• Suicidal thoughts
• Dizziness and headache
• Sore arms and legs
• Nail-biting and pulling out hair


Signals with an adolescent which may indicate depression.
Depression with an adolescent can manifest through anorexia or boulimia or drug and alcohol abuse. Thoughtless behaviour, such as reckless driving, having unsafe sex and crossing the street without looking, are indicative of depression as well. Other elements are social isolation, wanting to run away from home, constant disobedience, delinquency with judicial consequences, sexual insults, no care for their appearance, no longer living up to values and standards, trouble entering into a relationship or no longer being able to focus on a goal.
Depression with adolescents can manifest in these kinds of behaviour as well:


• physic symtoms such as dizziness, headaches, stomach ache, neck ache, tense muscles in the arms and legs, digestive problems
• Dejection
• Irritability
• Negativism
• Outbursts of anger
• Lack of self-confidence and an unjust sense of guilt
• Anxieties
• Lack of interest in school activities
• Changed food pattern, eating too much or not at all
• Obsession about death
• Suicidal thoughts and fascination with rifles and guns


Depression is a disease which should not be underrated. That is why it is important to urge a person to seek help when you notice signals of depression. In that case, the Bach flower therapy is definitely what you need. Should you want to know more about how Bach flowers can help against depression, then click “depression”.

 

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